Anonymous asked: I broke up with my boyfriend of one year over a month ago and I miss him terribly. I broke up with him because I found flaws in him I could not learn to love or compromise with, and because I couldn't ask him to change himself for me when I wouldn't change myself for him. I broke up with him, I hurt him deeply, because I am selfish. I want him back and miss him and regret it because I am selfish. I can't love him and I can't love myself because there are so many flaws I have that're intolerable.